Why Some Reunions Make You Happy

Some reunions make you happy.  Contact with people who have influenced your life validates and energizes you.

In terms of retirement happiness, some  reunions are worthwhile — others, not so much. The big ‘home-coming’ reunions at universities I’ve attended never attract me. It’s not worth the time or expense to attend these events to re-kindle relationships that were never important.

The  type of reunion that I try not to miss is one where I know that  I’ll be replenished by the people who attend.

Last weekend I hosted such a reunion.  It’s an annual gathering at our cottage where a group of women who worked closely together during the 70s meet to reconnect.
Our relationships  began as coworkers.  Over time, these relationships evolved to become friendships.

Our careers and our lives took us on divergent paths since the work connections of several decades past.  Among the group many made life changes including new jobs, new homes, new locales, and new partners.  We’ve shared stories of joy when adult children have married and made us grand parents.  We’ve also shared grief when beloved siblings and/or parents died.

Most of us see each other only at this reunion.  This is the time when we share information on key life events during the past year  — special birthdays, retirements, travel and achievements. We are shameless in bragging about accomplishments of children and grand children including weddings, baptisms, and baby pictures. This year we heard stories of falling in love again. We saw the joy in the eyes of friends who found soul mates later in life.

At the gathering, conversation comes as easy as breathing.  The openness and generosity of  long friendship provides compassion, understanding and respect. We relax and share our deepest secrets and fears. When requested, practical and timely advice is given.

To maximize the time we spend together, we meet early on a Saturday.  Coolers full of food and wine arrive along with guests hungry for a years worth of news.

We drink wine. We indulge our appetites with snacks and appetizers.  Eating together is a simple and ordinary act that strengthens the already strong bonds among us. The pleasure of sharing our food extends to a fun-filled potluck dinner.

Since retiring I’ve attended a MSW class reunion of 40 people at McGill http://Why you Shouldn’t Miss a Reunion. I’ve also attended a reunion of former colleagues http://Why Attend Reunions.  I enjoyed each of these events knowing that they won’t likely be repeated.

These formal, institutional reunions differed from the annual reunion I’ve just described.  They provided opportunities to go back in time and to recall pleasant associations of more youthful days.

Interestingly, our small group of former colleagues used the common ground of shared experience to build something bigger by meeting annually.  From each other, we’ve learned lessons of compassion and respect.  We’ve laughed and cried together.

Bonds have been strengthened by the pleasurable act of sharing food in an informal setting.  As we’ve fed our bodies, we’ve also nourished our souls.

By re-connecting every year we’ve established emotional attachments that make our reunion rewarding. Such reunions give abundant retirement happiness.




Life Changes — Embracing Retirement

Retirement comes in many forms.  It’s a time when life changes.

Sometimes the changes come gradually. Sometimes the  changes are deliberate and happen through personal choice. Sometimes the changes come due to circumstances that force retirement.

When job loss drives the retirement decision, embracing retirement is inconceivable for most people.  Finding work again — in a known field or, perhaps in a new field is usually the first consideration.  Many factors, including ageism, often make this impossible. Opting out of the labour force becomes the alternative.  ‘Retirement’ is imposed.

A similar process occurs when retirement occurs due to illness — especially when there is a long recuperation period.  As health improves,  the realization dawns that continuing to work will be impossible due to reduced energy, and continuing poor health.

Reaching a certain age may mandate retirement. This happened to my husband at the time when Ontario laws required retirement at age 65. On his birthday, he left his counselling and teaching  job at a community college. He then set up a consulting practise that continued for another 10 years until he felt ready to close his office and move into full-time retirement.

Embracing retirement — Margaret’s story

Margaret is a widowed friend. Her husband died after a sudden heart attack when she was in her late thirties.  She was left to raise two adolescent aged children.  There was no insurance, a mortgage, and the challenge of coping on her own.  Previously a full-time home maker and mother, she faced a job market with no skills.  She found work in a unionized factory that provided a wage sufficient to meet monthly expenses.

Years passed.  The children grew up, completed post-secondary education, married and established themselves in far away places. The mortgage was paid. Margaret dreamed of a happy retirement funded from the factory’s pension plan with visions of travel and leisure.

The dream changed abruptly when the factory moved from Ontario to a Southern US City where labour was cheaper. In her fifties and too young to retire, Margaret faced unemployment.

No stranger to a sudden life changes, she decided to make a new beginning. She enrolled in the local university to attain the degree she’d abandoned as a young woman.

She made a good profit by selling the family home.  Her employer paid a severance gratuity to all long-term employees including Margaret.  She moved to a small apartment near the university. These changes assured a financial base to fund a few years of education.


Embracing retirement -- study time
Embracing retirement — study time

Studying was not easy.  She cried over term papers when words did not flow.  She fought with new technology — appalled that the library was now a digital maze.  She had few peers on campus. Most faculty were younger than Margaret and often ignored or dismissed her. During this time she reached out to friends who helped her and supported her decision to study.

Margaret’s perseverance paid off.  She took five years instead of the usual four to finish her degree in social work, a profession where many of the lessons learned through challenging life experiences brought compassion, empathy and respect for others.

Margaret now works as a social worker in a children’s mental health centre.  She tells me often that she’s not ready to retire. When the time comes, she hopes to stop work gradually by dropping to part-time hours before stopping completely.

Margaret’s story may be an exception but I’m not so sure. In the four years since my retirement, I’ve encountered many people who challenged popular retirement myths.  Instead of viewing retirement  as a time of leisure leading to an eventual slow decline, they stay fully engaged with life, taking risks to carve a future of exciting daily choices.

Margaret wasn’t held back by a fear of failure.  Instead she moved out of her comfort zone and challenged herself. She found fulfillment in a new career rather than sitting around feeling sorry for herself.

All of us can learn from Margaret’s story. By taking a proactive approach to retirement and trying new things, we can move boldly into the future. With some creativity and risk-taking, retirement can bring days filled with opportunities and new rewards.

Do Pets Increase Retirement Happiness?

Studies show that pets increase retirement happiness, particularly among older people.

The companionship of a beloved dog or cat boosts happiness, improves general well-being, and enhances life satisfaction.   Pets reduce overall stress levels.

If you come home to an empty house, pets will offer a greeting. Owners with pets have improved physical and mental health as they care for another living being. The companionship of an animal decreases loneliness. Pets, especially dogs provide security as they protect both an owner and property.

Pets welcome you home

Pets can be relied upon for an enthusiastic ‘welcome home’ greeting when owners return.  Whether you’ve been out of the house for an hour or for a week, a dog will give  a boisterous, excited greeting.  You know you were missed!

Cats may seem oblivious and disinterested but they  constantly check comings and goings of owners. Our cats acknowledge a home-coming  only if we’ve been away for a significant amount of time, perhaps for an overnight stay.  They  rub their bodies along our legs.  They smell our shoes. They follow us from room to room with purrs and meows to provide a welcome home.

Pets improve health

Positive physical health effects come from owning a pet.

The American Heart Association published findings indicating that pet ownership, especially owning a dog, could result in reduced cardiovascular risk .  Why?  Dogs get you moving. They give a reason to get outdoors. Dog owners can’t avoid leaving the house for daily walks.   Regardless of weather, fido needs to get outside.

The structure and routine of walking has significant positive health benefits for both owner and pet.  As well as physical exercise, the daily walks provide another health benefit, Vitamin D exposure.

Getting out of the house also provides an opportunity to engage with others as pets are great conversation starters.  This socialization counteracts loneliness and isolation, especially among seniors living alone.

Mental health improves from interactions with a pet. Elderly pet owners, especially, benefit from knowing that a non-judgemental companion shares the joys and sorrows of each day. Daily chores of feeding, cleaning and caring for pets give a reason to get up in the morning.

A cuddle with a warm furry friend or a hug from a pet, improves mood. While most pets aren’t huggers, they do like to cuddle.  Cats purr in response to having a ‘head rub’; they love to curl up on warm lap.  Dogs wag their tails and drool to show happiness with their owners. Such enjoyable interactions with pets reduce stress levels resulting in improved mental and emotional well-being.

Pets Alleviate Loneliness

Pets provide a relationship replacement. When one of my friends lost her husband, a friend brought a stray kitten to her home. My friend had always been a dog lover. She never liked cats nor pictured herself owning a cat.

Surprisingly, she  found herself warming to this kitten who began to follow her around the house.  The kitten knew when she needed quiet time.  The kitten’s playfulness got her off the couch.  She found new reason to get up in the morning as the cat needed feeding and wanted attention through play.

Not only was my friend’s loneliness reduced with companion in her home, the kitten helped to reduce her grief as she learned to cope with widowhood. It was a win-win situation as the kitten needed care and my friend needed the companionship of another living thing.

Pets Protect and Guard Their Owners

A noisy dog serves as a security system when you live alone.

My widowed neighbour’s tiny dog weighs less than 10 pounds yet his bark protects her by loud barking whenever anyone approaches the driveway or deck leading to her cottage.

Many people choose large dogs and train them as guard dogs.  I grew up on a remote farm in Saskatchewan where every family owned one or two dogs that patrolled the farm to protect property and to herd the farm animals.

Pets have their drawbacks

Pet ownership brings drawbacks. Astronomical veterinary bills, costs for food, toys, and other pet accessories take a bite out of retirement income.  Boarding and kennelling a pet or finding a pet watcher adds to the cost of vacations.

The British Columbia Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals (BCSPCA) estimated the average annual cost (2013) for owning and caring for a dog at $1196 Canadian dollars annually. For a cat, the cost averaged $899. These amounts include food, veterinary care, grooming and vacation boarding costs.

Ultimately, costs aren’t viewed as a burden by people who love their pets.

Our cats are healthy so they don’t cost us a lot of money. However, we always consider how they will fare if we will be away for more than one or two days.

Vacuuming cat hair from furniture is an endless challenge. Regardless of whether at home or at the cottage, keeping the cats off our bed has not been successful. They manage to sneak to the bed when backs are turned seeking the warmth of a down comforter or quilt. I’ve invested in a special vacuum brush for cleaning the cat hair after nap time.

Woody cat curled up on my quilt
Woody cat curled up on my cottage quilt
Sister Tinks in her favourite spot on the bed
Sister Tinks at her favourite spot on the comforter

Most pet owners don’t put a dollar value on the enthusiastic greetings, unconditional love and loyal companionship.

Rather, it comes down to companionship and relationship with another living thing. The life-long devotion of a beloved pet is an investment that increases retirement happiness.



What makes summer at the Cottage Special?

Summer days at the cottage are special.  These are some of the happiest times in my retirement journey. I don’t have to do anything, be anywhere, or answer to anyone.

We spend most of the summer at our cottage at Lake Huron where sandy beaches stretch for miles.  The vistas of the lake change every day.

Lake Huron’s angry waves at our beach
Summer at the cottage is special — Lake Huron’s angry waves at our beach

The lake provides a backdrop of healing sounds ranging from a low, continuous swoosh to the crash of angry waves hitting the shore.

In Ontario, there are two to three months of warm summer weather. Because the season is short, every day needs to include special summer activities.

This year, the days and nights have been cooler than normal.  We’ve escaped the hot humid weather that often lasts for days. A tornado touched down near our cottage on July 27 but luckily we suffered no damage.   An earlier post describes the effects of the tornado.

As summer 2014 winds down, here are some of the memories I treasure.

1.  Cottage house guests

A cottage provides a venue for catching up with many friends. Visits often involve sleepovers and always involve relaxed conversations, as well as eating and drinking together.

This summer we hosted bridge club friends for a weekend of cards, food and fun.  We entertained friends from afar who travelled great distances for a few days of R&R at the beach.  We also had great lunches with friends who visit us every summer at the cottage but find driving to the city intimidating.

2. Family time 

Our 16 month old grand-daughter explored the cottage on weekend visits. We smiled as she experienced the mix of pleasure and shock when getting wet in the lake.  We enjoyed seeing her play with the same wooden wagon that our son used as a toddler.  Her screams of delight while running around in bare feet increased as we joined her. My husband and I went back to the city for a few days so that our son, daughter-in-law and grand-daughter could have their private family time to create memories for another generation.

3. Reading

Summer gives uninterrupted time to dig into books that pile up during other months.  I’ve spent hours reading — on the deck, at the beach, sometimes late into the night — enjoying mysteries, memoirs, and novels.  I purchased a box of cookbooks produced by various churches, service clubs, and local agricultural groups at a beach flea market.  It provided hours of entertaining reading.

4.  Learning new skills 

The local art centre offered a variety of short courses through the summer.  A photography course taught me to use functions on my camera that I had never explored.  A writer’s course by a local author inspired me to spend more time on writing projects including this blog.

5.  Taking walks

Our beach town is small with many delightful spots within easy walking distance including a shop for fair trade coffee beans, a bustling fish market for freshly caught lake fish, a bakery for fresh cinnamon buns, and various small restaurants. Whether for exerise or just for fun, there were beach walks in the sun, exercise walks in the early morning, walks to friends’ cottages, walks to do errands, and after dinner strolls.

6.  Summer foods

Meals at the cottage are different from meals at home.  The box of local cookbooks spawned new ideas for using fresh South Western Ontario veggies and fruits. A farmer’s market every Wednesday morning sells a variety local produce as well as lamb, smoked sausages, and perfectly aged steaks ready for the barbecue. We started the summer with local asparagus, tender lettuce, sweet onions, raspberries and strawberries.  August brought abundant corn on the cob, vine-ripened tomatoes, new potatoes, and young beets. Yummy!

7.  Ice-cream

As a summer treat, ice-cream is food that deserves it’s own mention.  A sweet and salty caramel variety that one of the grocery stores stocks only in the summer has big fans at our cottage.  We’ve also consumed a good amount of quality vanilla ice-cream for the Dom Pedro dessert drinks I learned to make while visiting South Africa.  For those who haven’t had a Dom Pedro, it’s a type of milkshake made with Irish whiskey that works as a perfect ending for any meal — no dessert required!

8. Summer drinks

Summer days usually end with gin and tonic on the deck or with a favourite Ontario craft beer.  This summer we also tried various non alcoholic drinks including  fruit spritzers, grapefruit sodas, lemonade, and home-made ginger beer.

9. Looking at the stars 

Without light contamination, the night sky is really dark so every star is brilliant.  Taking time to step outside just before bedtime allowed me to marvel at the various constellations.  On these nights I gave thanks for the wonders of the universe and realized again that my life is just a blink in time and  I’m just a spot in something so big.

10. Cottage clothes and summer feet

Summer means wearing favourite T-shirts and stretching out my feet in summer sandals. I have a yoga teacher who urges us to love our feet. Her meditations on feet have made me notice how many people conceal their feet. Alternately, many women love to show off fresh pedicures. Thank goodness most men no longer hide their feet in socks while wearing summer sandals!

My list could include sunsets over the lake, cool evenings in front of a fire, and summer theatre excursions.

Too bad the season is so short.  It makes summer at the cottage a very special time.


Do you fit the Perfect Retirement Image?

Does your retirement fit the perfect retirement image? Are you pursuing a life of perfect ease and relaxation? Are you travelling extensively, living in the perfect retirement house, achieving  retirement goals, and living a dream retirement?

Although I am happy with my retirement choices, I confess that I don’t have the perfect retirement.

My husband and I don’t live the lifestyle of the perfect retired couple.

We have not moved to the active adult retirement community or to a luxury condo designed for seniors to enjoy social activities and recreation. In fact, we continue to keep up both our city residence and our cottage which involves a fair amount of physical work — plus extra costs that would stop if we down-sized and moved.

We travel–but not extensively.  Busy airports, heavy suitcases, and dealing with other tourists in most resorts aren’t intriguing.  Spending time at the cottage provides a break that feels like an extended vacation regardless of whether we stay for a few days or for weeks.

Our lives are not characterized by ease and leisure pursuits. We are busy with grand-parenting, hobbies, and volunteer work.  We workout at our gym, cook nutritious meals and visit with friends. Gardening, lawn care, and various household duties take up several hours every week. There is little time for restaurant outings, theatre nights or exotic adventures although we do enjoy such activities and try to partake when possible.

It’s true that retirement allows more time for new pursuits but the images of retirement portrayed by social media are not our reality.

I’m willing to say this is the case for most retired people.

Retirement Perfectionism

Popular culture promotes an image of retirement that does not resemble how most people live in retirement.

Retirement websites often promote a perfect retirement lifestyle full of adventure and excitement.  Retirement magazines feature air brushed glamour shots of older adults on golf courses, lounging at a seaside resort or dressed for a gala event. Chic lifestyle choices featuring unlimited leisure are popular images for marketing various retirement options.

These unrealistic images create inappropriate expectations of how retired people should look and behave.

I get frustrated when I compare my life to these ‘ideal’ images.

Such portrayals of the cultural/societal goal of retirement are unrealistic and often make people feel inadequate if they don’t follow popular prescriptions for retirement lifestyles.

We feel unhappy and unfulfilled if our personal reality doesn’t fit the marketing image of the perfect retirement.

We start to second guess our lifestyle choices.   This may cause self-esteem to suffer or cause a feeling of angst that undermines overall well-being.

It’s not surprising that we wonder what’s wrong when we fall short or when we find that practical options are more desirable given income, health or personal preference.

Breaking free of societal expectations

“When you are content to simply be yourself and don’t compare or compete, everybody will respect you.” Lao Tzu.

It’s not easy to break free of societal expectations of the perfect retirement.  Retirement is  a time in life when we don’t want to make mistakes — not with investments nor with choices of where to live or how to live.

There is no opportunity to ‘practise’ retirement.  It’s reality. Most choices don’t have an exit clause or a second chance.

In retirement we begin to realize that life is brief — it  will be over in a flash of time.

Because none of us gets an unlimited supply of time, energy or health, it’s important to decide what’s important.

For me, this includes spending time with people I like, or, spending time alone when I need solitude.  It includes doing things I enjoy doing and not doing things retired people ’should ‘ do.  It also includes focusing on healthy living with daily exercise, a nutritious diet, and getting enough sleep.

When we resolve to make the most of the time we have left, we stop being obsessed with someone else’s idea of the perfect retirement.  We stop being afraid of being an ‘outsider’  in terms of our choices.  We realize that our lives count for more than the media images that are dissociated from the reality of retirement for most people.

Retirement provides an opportunity to explore deeper purpose of life, spend time with family and take better care of health.  The postworksavvy lifestyle is indeed a new phase of life filled with precious days. Who cares if it fits the  popular culture’s definition of a perfect retirement?


Lessons From An Unpredictable Week

It’s been a week of unpredictable events.

Last Sunday I took my usual walk along the beach. The day was sunny and hot with just a gentle breeze blowing off the lake.

The beach was quiet in the late afternoon.  Here’s a shot of the beach where I walk — usually about 4.5 kilometres in the lovely warm sand.

View of our quiet beach
View of our quiet beach

Shortly after my return, threatening clouds appeared accompanied by loud thunder claps.  We pulled deck furniture into safety and coaxed  frightened cats indoors.

Rain started slowly but soon hammered down. Trees were bent as gale force winds rolled off the lake. The temperature plummeted.

The wind roared and the torrential rain continued through most of the night. Hydro service halted abruptly leaving candles and flashlights to ease the darkness.

By morning, an eerie calm settled over our small beach town.    Downed branches surrounded us.

When I ventured outdoors, I was greeted by a neighbour walking his dog who told me that a tornado had touched down about 1 kilometre away.

The nearby highway was closed due to fallen trees covering the road. One local coffee shop had a generator but long line-ups of cars had police were directing traffic.

Breakfast at our cottage was ice cream as we knew it would soon melt with no hydro to run the freezer.

Here’s a shot of the type of damage suffered by some of our neighbours as 300 year old trees were toppled on roofs of houses.  This older cottage will likely be demolished.


Storm damage
Cottage damaged by felled trees

After we cleaned up the downed branches at the cottage, we drove back to the city with a long list of errands and plans to visit friends.

On arrival at home, another surprise greeted us. Our son and daughter-in-law needed help with our sick grand child who had been sent home from child care with fever.  Two days of caring for a peevish 30 pound toddler isn’t easy — but I honoured my commitment to be available as back up when busy parents were needed at their jobs

By Friday our grand daughter’s good health returned. Two exhausted grand parents returned to the cottage without completing errands or seeing friends as planned.

In the past few days I’ve thought about how life has a way of interfering with the plans we make.  We expect to have hydro to make coffee in the morning and to keep appliances running.  It’s okay to be disappointed when plans change because of unpredictable events but there is always a silver lining.

Although all of us have plans for a day, for a week and for our future, many things in life can’t be planned.  Constant adjustments are needed to deal with events such as tornados or unexpected illness.  It’s also worth considering that disrupted plans often lead to serendipitous surprises with happy outcomes.

In the grand scheme of things, our lives weren’t changed by the events of last week.  We suffered only the inconvenience of losing hydro while some people lost their homes or suffered significant property damage.

The minor disappointment of changing our plans during the time spent in the city meant that we missed seeing some friends. There was, however a big payoff as we spent two full days holding and comforting our grand daughter when she needed the tender loving care of people she knows and trusts. In that respect, spending time with her was a beneficial occurrence.


What’s your retirement brand?

What’s your retirement brand?  Is there something that people automatically associate with you?  Perhaps it’s your welcoming smile, or your cooking, or your deep knowledge of an obscure topic, or your signature perfume.

How people think of you is your personal ‘brand’.

It’s very ‘in’ to think of how you brand yourself. Although it’s difficult to become a brand known internationally — think Celine Dion — how we present ourselves everyday is our brand.

Movie stars, media personalities and politicians have advisors and publicists that hone their personality, appearance and presentation into an appealing ‘brand’ that brings status and recognition.

This expensive process often takes months or years. It might be accompanied by books, consumer products or music.  It leads to power, recognition and fame.

For most of us, branding is something that just happens. We brand ourselves without much forethought or planning.

What is branding?

Branding is a form of marketing.

Branding a product involves creating a consistent experience for customers.  Hopefully the experience is positive and will make the customer trust the product, recommend it to others and use it repeatedly.

Most of us know the taste of coke — and we also know that it will taste the same regardless of where in the world it is purchased — that’s because we know and trust the brand.

People Also Brand Themselves

Branding applies to people as well as products.

Whether we realize it or not, we market our personal ‘brand’ every day.

From popular media, we know that people judge us within 10  to 15 seconds of meeting us.  We are judged on presentation including attire, hair style, behaviour, and communication — both verbal and non-verbal.

Too often we brand ourselves unwittingly and, perhaps, thoughtlessly.

We may want to be known as dependable, generous, charismatic, trustworthy, reliable, creative, or interesting. Yet our behaviour may convey the opposite characteristics leaving people to judge us as unreliable, stingy, unfaithful, boring and fickle.

Social Media and Branding

Social media is a powerful determinant of a personal brand.

Many  purposely shape their personal brands by their online presentation. They believe that unless you create your own online brand, others will brand you online and make changing your brand difficult.

They are careful about posting pictures of themselves and family members.  They reveal next to nothing about lifestyle or private matters.

Others blast forth with little thought about how comments on Facebook or twitter will play in Google’s unrelenting spotlight. No consideration is given to consistency of online image with ‘in person’ image.

Another group of people craft an online persona detached from reality.  When qualifications or experiences are enhanced it should be no surprise when reality and reputation catch up.

A mismatched brand in social media doesn’t work.  You are who you are regardless of how you convey yourself online.

Retirement Branding

During career days, you brand yourself within in your workplace or your profession.   You are known for expertise in a field or within a profession.

In retirement, you’ve ditched the job title and the career.  How do you re-brand yourself? How do you find a retirement brand? Retirement provides an opportunity for a new image — a new brand.

Start with consideration of your unique attributes.  What makes you an interesting person? Are you blessed with a sense of humour?  Are you naturally empathic?  Are you thoughtful and reserved or bubbly and extroverted? Can you re-make skills from career days into a retirement brand?

You way want to consider the way you spend your time during retirement.  For example, you might focus your retirement brand on the volunteer work you do or the ability you acquire in a new career or a part-time job. Involvement with a church, a service club, or a community group may be your personal definition.

What hobbies and activities define you?  You might be a gardener or a blogger or an amateur musician.  You may be involved with an advocacy group or a political party working to achieve larger societal goals. These activities can become part of a new brand.

The friends you have will influence your retirement brand.  Have you reached out to new people who have diverse interests?  Do you keep hanging out with buddies from your former career, spending time discussing old times?  Do you have friends who can give honest feedback and who help you understand how others may see you? Are your friends interesting people?

What’s your outlook on life? Are you known as a positive and loving person or do you constantly find fault in other people?  Do you enjoy every day experiences or are you quick to find fault and complain?

Knowing what you’ve done well in the past, what makes you happy and what you want from your retirement freedom is critical as you define your retirement brand.

Sell Your Retirement Brand

Once you understand your retirement strengths and skills, you can begin to manage your retirement brand. You set the course of your retirement with a positive and confident presentation.

Who you are, how you spend your time, and what makes you happy is the first step.

Next, you can decide what adjectives you want associated with you.  Think about tangible and intangible ways you are comfortable in presenting yourself.  Think about your unique attributes, sense of humour and personal experiences. These are the aspects of a retirement brand that make you interesting.

Acceptance of who we are, how people view and judge us, is not just about the clothes we wear, the place we live, the shape of our body or the colour of our hair. Rather, it’s about dependability and life management.

A consistent presentation of your best qualities leads to a retirement brand that makes others remember you.

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